The Blessings of Death

The most difficult kind of pain in the world is losing a loved one. Someone you loved and cherished passing away will break you to a thousand pieces. It will feel like your limbs are getting torn apart. Your heart will feel heavy and tight, you will feel like you’re suffocating and can’t breathe.  It…

Unplug Yourself for a Few Minutes

People should take more breaks, more coffee breaks, walking breaks, eating chocolate breaks, just take time to breath break. I believe we all don’t take enough breaks and that’s awful. We rush too much, overwork ourselves, don’t enjoy the moment, and are overly stressed. However if we took the time to give ourselves a break,…

Marry by Love

Two years ago I met a girl, who was in her twenties. She left her country and family to get married to the man she loves. She was living in Canada but moved to Italy where her man lived. In the beginning she wasn’t so sure of the idea. A lot of people were against…

The Ingredients to Everlasting Relationship

In any relationship there are three things that count the most, “Love, Trust, and Respect”. For any relationship to be healthy and happy, these three things need to exist in it. You can’t love someone, and disrespect them. You can’t love someone without trusting them. However you can respect and not love, and trust without…

America meets Germany (Tips for moving to a Different Country)

When I was a teen I was in love with these movies where the main character moves to a different country and finds themselves, love, and happiness. It’s like you can start all over again however you want. You can be whatever kind of person you want to be. That’s why back in high school…

Living with Six Siblings

I wrote this about three years ago and found it in my drafts the other day. Back then I was living with my family in the US. I have six siblings and I’m the eldest one of them so it was always a thrill. So let’s look at the 19 year old me that wrote…

Being Right or Being Kind?

“If you have the choice  between being right or being kind, always choose to be kind.” -Wayne Dyer In this time period where individuality is implemented, people forget kindness. They are mostly focused on their own individual needs and self, not thinking much about others. Even though independence and individual needs are important, kindness is…

The Poisonous Advice

There is an old Chinese story about a monk and a prostitute. The monk lived across the prostitute house, he saw how many men came into her house and thought that he should go and talk to her about these bad deeds. So he did and told her that she was committing a grave sin…

New Years Resolution, will I fulfil them this year?

So it´s New Years!! Happy New Year to everyone! Hope this year will be better than 2020. I’m pretty sure that everyone had a hard time with Corona. However, as long as you’re safe and healthy, it’s enough to be grateful. Every New Years most people tend to make some resolutions. “I will lose weight…

Courage to Start

Each human being has a mind that thinks and creates. Our mind creates ideas over 50 times a day. Sometimes they are unique ideas that can change our lives. But it won’t change anything just by thinking about it. You have to act upon it. You have to work on it. You have to have…