Okay when you read the title, don’t think I’m telling you to go and trap yourself in the room and isolate yourself from everything and everyone! NO NO NO! What I mean is, when you realize that the people that you are surrounding yourself with aren’t real. They don’t support you, text you, ask how you’re doing once in a while, and all the things that people need to do in order to show love and care, if these things are missing and you realize these people aren’t the right ones, its okay to decide to not be there friends anymore. It happens to everyone and very normal.
Take that step, decide to change the people you’re surrounding yourself with, accept the fact that you might be alone for a while. Being alone isn’t necessarily a bad thing, sometimes its actually a good thing. It’ll show you how capable you are, hidden talents and skills, discovering new things about yourself, and mainly it’ll teach you how to love and take care of yourself.
You dont need people to take care of you. Love yourself, accept your flaws, learn from the past and don’t dwell on it. Living in the past will always bring you pain, nothing comes out of it. The past happened for a reason, to teach you not to be an obstacle to you. When you’re trying to find yourself make sure that in the end of the journey you have forgiven yourself. Don’t ever be afraid to be alone, because sometimes being alone means being free.:)