So lately I´ve been feeling a bit down. I sit in the sofa and ask myself, "What do I want from this world?", "Will I be able to achieve my dreams?", "Actually, what are my dreams?", "Am I good person?", "How does one know if they are a good person?" All these questions are meaningless…
The People Who Think They Can Change People
This post is for the people who try to fix things that are unfixable. The people who think they can change other people. The people who believe in others more than they believe in themselves. Some will understand exactly what I mean, to the ones who understand this. This post is focused on you. It…
“You need to find Yourself, in order to find God” -Rumi
I watched a lecture a couple days ago and it was a lecture about Rumi. He's a philosopher and islamic scholar that is known around the whole world. The quotes and poems he wrote all had something in common, “in order to find God you need to find yourself”. Knowing who you are, what your…
“I wish I learned this earlier..”
Wisdom from Earl Nightingal When a boy is born he usually talks, thinks, and acts like his surroundings, copying his surroundings. He then starts in school and usually in school he wants to be liked by the other boys and so he follows these boys. Which as we all know are not leaders. He does…
Having to Learn German is the Hardest Part of Moving to Germany
A lot of people have parents that moved to a country to afford a better future for them, some have people who moved because of safety, others for education, etc. My parents also moved to the US to afford a better future for us. I never knew how hard it actually was for them until…
Greed isn’t A Financial Symptom
So a couple days ago I got a free ticket to London! Which to me is crazy because I´ve always wanted to go to London! There are many places I've wanted to go to, and thank God I did. But this city is different because it's connected to my father, he lived and studied in…
7 Questions You Should Ask Yourself
Since we're all busy with our lives, working like machines, loving people and giving them our energy, and then sitting with ourselves either worrying about the future or hating the past. Today's blog will be one that will help you reflect a bit with a few questions. If you search for reflection questions the question…
Who Are You Aside From Your Roles and Relationships?
We all are surrounded by people who are either our friends or family, and on the other hand we are also surrounded by people through society and our careers. When we look at the roles these people have on us and the roles we have on them, we realize who we are to each one…
The Questions They Didn’t Ask Us Before Choosing a Career
In our twenties or thirties we were dragged into thinking what career to have when actually that should be the time we think about what life we want to have. Instead of asking us “What do you want to be?”, they should ask, “What kind of person do you want to be?” They tell us…
The Five Regrets Before One Dies
“The last hour of a person's life is the most important hour of a person's life”. There was a nurse that worked at a hospital with patients who didn't have much time to live. They had about 3 to 12 months left. She worked there for years and she would always ask them, “What do…
Don’t Be Stuck In Pain
When a pain is too strong to handle, the body tends to protect you by making you numb sometimes. It makes you not feel anything at all towards a topic or situation that is meant to make you feel pain. Your body knows you better than you know yourself. It listens to you, sees what…
Lets Go To Venice
So a couple days ago I was in Venice Italy, and just three words explained how I felt about the trip, “It was perfect”. A country that is full of life, people who know how to enjoy the small things in life. A society that dances and sings in the streets. People that smile all…
What You’re Fed is What you’ll Feed
"A fight is going on inside me," said an old man to his son. "It is a terrible fight between two wolves. One wolf is evil. He is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego. The other wolf is good. He is joy, peace, love, hope,…
Talk Yourself Out of the Darkness
Talking to yourself is one of the best methods for all different kinds of solutions. If you want to increase your self-confidence, talking to yourself can help you with that and do wonders. When you want to calm down, to know more about yourself, want to impress someone, be more happy, be more intelligent even,…
Don’t Give Up On Your Dreams
When I was young I loved going to school a lot. I loved to study, get good grades, see my friends, and I loved my teachers. I went to college afterwards however I had to drop out. I was majoring in Biology and minoring in Psychology. At that time I thought I knew what I…
How to Make Dreams Come True
I´ve always wondered with some people, “Why does he always meet these type of girls?”, “Why does that always happen to her?” “Why does she always encounter these situations?”. We all know at least one person where we wonder these questions about them. I think you guys know what I'm talking about. We all have…
Expectations is what ruins Relationships
I´ve always tried to look at the good in people, maybe even sometimes the best in people. It was a trait that I was even proud of, I thought it was a good thing to look beyond flaws and mistakes. To be more accurate, to ALWAYS look beyond flaws. There are times where looking at…
English Language meets German Language
If you read my blog post “America meets Germany”, you know that I moved from the US to Germany. Which means my mother language is not the spoken language of the country anymore....which sucks. Even though it’s beautiful that now I am learning a third language and trying to adapt to this country, it still…
The Blessings of Death
The most difficult kind of pain in the world is losing a loved one. Someone you loved and cherished passing away will break you to a thousand pieces. It will feel like your limbs are getting torn apart. Your heart will feel heavy and tight, you will feel like you’re suffocating and can’t breathe. It…
Unplug Yourself for a Few Minutes
People should take more breaks, more coffee breaks, walking breaks, eating chocolate breaks, just take time to breath break. I believe we all don't take enough breaks and that's awful. We rush too much, overwork ourselves, don't enjoy the moment, and are overly stressed. However if we took the time to give ourselves a break,…
Marry by Love
Two years ago I met a girl, who was in her twenties. She left her country and family to get married to the man she loves. She was living in Canada but moved to Italy where her man lived. In the beginning she wasn’t so sure of the idea. A lot of people were against…
The Ingredients to Everlasting Relationship
In any relationship there are three things that count the most, “Love, Trust, and Respect”. For any relationship to be healthy and happy, these three things need to exist in it. You can't love someone, and disrespect them. You can't love someone without trusting them. However you can respect and not love, and trust without…
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